I'm a bit puzzled by your post. You've already stated that you have a plenty USB cables and "really couldn't identify which one came with my RB". To me this indicates two things:-
a) If you had never experienced a problem with the supplied cable, would it not be the one still connected to your RB ? It it worked fine from day one, I don't see why you might have removed it.
b) If you really don't know if you have actually used the supplied USB cable, then I don't see how you can comment on its effectiveness ?
As for the your thoughts that the problem is not as simple as cable issues... Hmm... In many cases swapping the cable for a better one resolves the problem - sounds simple to me ! I agree that some PCs can cut power if no user intervention etc., however this possibility as a root cause of disconnects is disproven when a cable swap solves the problem. I'm sure you'll agree that swapping a cable will not actually trigger Windows (or Mac) to adjust its own USB settings, so this does rather rule out USB settings as a cause.
As for the likliehood that your set up may be "special" - I cannnot comment. Suffice to say, your setup and apparently flawless operation doesn't have any effect on the numerous users that have had to exchange the cable to avoid disconnects. In the absence of any other substansive inforamtion I would suggest it is likely that you are fortunate (rather than lucky!)
Stay lucky !!